I know, you deserve a much better post/update than this and now that the election is over I might actually have time to sit down and write something worth reading. For now, I want to touch on a few things non-pregnancy related that I have neglected to write about over the last few months.
The Little Guy’s mother has a new boyfriend. I knew something was up when she asked to switch a day with us (a Thursday when it was our weekend to have him) and then didn’t call him all weekend. That is very unlike her…so I had a feeling something was going on but I didn’t say anything to anyone. BJ got a text from her about 2 weeks later that she was seeing someone and that a meeting between the LG and him would not happen for a while. Well, it only took about another week or so before she introduced them. The LG seems to like him and they do fun things like camping, amusement parks and stuff like that. The only problem is that she likes to hang out at his place a lot, even when she has the LG with her. I don’t blame her as he has his own house and she lives in her dad’s basement (which is very tiny) so who wouldn’t want to hang out somewhere else? However, the LG doesn’t really have anything to do while they are there. So, many of his weekends are pretty boring. Not to mention, the boyfriend lives in another county which is about a 30 to 35 minute drive away. Everyone seems happy so it’s good for now.
The LG started middle school this year. Wow, I remember when he started Kindergarten. He’s growing up so fast. We are having a hard time adjusting to say the least. He is in honors classes so he’s at a faster pace and higher level this year. His math is kicking my butt…not to mention HIS butt. I get home, help finish making dinner, eat dinner, clean up after dinner and then sit down to go over his homework. I easily spend another 45 minutes to an hour helping him with his math. I haven’t seen this math since I was in school and that was a LONG time ago. He doesn’t take good notes and can’t remember what his teacher instructs him to do so I’m left surfing the internet or trying to figure out how to use his text book to help finish his worksheets. It’s a nightmare. And then comes his lack of memory for turning in this homework that we spend so much time on. He forgets everything…and I’m not kidding. He totally played me the other week because I told him that if he did not turn in one more assignment (especially after we spent so much time on it) he would be grounded for 3 days. We can look online at his grades and his work was missing so I told him that was it, he was grounded. He promised me he turned it in and that he looked everywhere for it and that the teacher must have lost it. He cried and cried and didn’t understand why I didn’t believe him. I felt like an ass because I really wanted to believe him. I let him off the hook. I looked in one of his other folders several days later and wouldn’t you know that I found the missing homework? Ugh. I told him that no matter how many tears he cried I would not believe him if another assignment came up missing. So he was grounded for a full weekend day…no electronics. He was so bored, poor thing. Needless to say, things aren’t going great with middle school. I’m hoping that he will adjust to the added responsibility a little better as time goes on. Once Baby Girl gets here our lives will be that much more chaotic.
We weathered the hurricane just fine. We were so prepared to lose power…we had coolers, extra ice, a generator, propane for our grill, batteries for our flashlights, food that was power-failure appropriate, water in our bathtub…everything. Of course we only lost power for 2 minutes. I’ve never been so prepared for a storm. I almost wished that we had lost power for a few hours. Not really. We have lost power and not been prepared and it sucked, big time. I feel so badly for the NJ/NY areas that were hit so hard. It’s unbelievable what a storm like that can do. I can’t imagine losing everything like that. It makes me cherish the fact that we came through unscathed.
We took a mini-vacation to an indoor waterpark last month. It was fun to get away but of course I did not ride any of the rides. I stuck my feet in the hot tub for a few minutes while BJ was enjoying the bubbles but I got hot pretty quickly so I just sat there and kept him company. The LG rode all sorts of waterslides and we all swam in the big pool together. I indulged in a pre-natal massage and it was heavenly. BJ scoffed at the price (I even had a coupon!) but I told him that since I could not ride the rides that the massage was MY vacation and I didn’t care how much it cost. It was only my 2nd professional massage and I so wish I could get one once a week…it was blissful. We ate some good food and played games at the arcade and just had a nice time. We couldn’t go on a real vacation this summer because I couldn’t tolerate the heat so this was the next best thing. I’ve also been saving my leave to carryover to next year and combine with my maternity leave so getting away felt really good since I feel like we have been trapped in our county since January. There were so many babies and pregnant ladies there it was unreal. I was so happy to be one of them for once, let me tell you. Even BJ commented to me that I didn’t have to look at them with daggers anymore. He was right. But I did wonder if anyone was looking at me with daggers.
Oh yeah…another quick story. On Open House night at school we were in the LG’s reading class and the teacher pointed out that she had the kids write the obligatory “what I did over the Summer” essay and she posted them in the back of the room. While she was talking (and I should have been listening) I was searching for the LG’s essay. I finally found it. I read it and I beamed with pride. The only 2 things he wrote about were places that I took him – the waterpark for his b-day in June and bowling with a friend. How cool is that? His mom took him to the beach once but he didn’t mention that. She didn’t take him nearly as much as she used to…due to the new boyfriend, and I guess he took notice of that. I showed the essay to BJ and told him how cool it was that the LG wrote about the things we did. Since we didn’t take a real vacation he didn’t have much to pick from but writing about our time instead of the beach trip meant a lot to me. I love that kid…bad memory and all.
I will do a better update later and I have some posts brewing that I need to get on paper so be prepared for a flurry of action around here over the next week or so…there’s lots to share.