tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532456271171506906.post5119956493534271316..comments2023-09-30T12:48:20.099-04:00Comments on Inconceivable!: The DetailsTeeJayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00893545693449975785noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532456271171506906.post-3557592767039253702011-02-16T10:00:32.141-05:002011-02-16T10:00:32.141-05:00I"m sorry TeeJay. It sounds like such a pain...I"m sorry TeeJay. It sounds like such a painful visit, it just sucks. I hope you and BJ can find some peace in a decision soon.Piehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07331859341593997811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532456271171506906.post-21290053026358467082011-02-15T22:55:03.637-05:002011-02-15T22:55:03.637-05:00That seriously sucks. I agree with everyone else a...That seriously sucks. I agree with everyone else and do some prodding to find out exactly why you don't qualify. (((hugs)))Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02010422089639320117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532456271171506906.post-16449183137270148982011-02-15T21:40:28.895-05:002011-02-15T21:40:28.895-05:00Oh this sucks - I'm so very sorry you received...Oh this sucks - I'm so very sorry you received such disappointing news. I would definitely call back and figure out why specifically they think you don't qualify. Perhaps talk to a different doctor as well? As always, I'm sending you as many virtual hugs as I can...Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524692943966582775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532456271171506906.post-58598057182577365852011-02-15T19:21:11.879-05:002011-02-15T19:21:11.879-05:00I'm so sorry your visit went that way. I agre...I'm so sorry your visit went that way. I agree with Caryn, and you call and ask them why you didn't qualify? In the mean time, I'ms sending more hugs your way!!Mel.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17095162408557764223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532456271171506906.post-2943430580295722772011-02-15T18:16:11.722-05:002011-02-15T18:16:11.722-05:00I'm annoyed at your doctor. You should have a...I'm annoyed at your doctor. You should have at least been told why you didn't qualify for the program. Could you call and ask? Or if there is another clinic close that offers a shared risk program is it worth a 2nd opinion? <br /><br />I know you are emotionally exhausted by all of this and the money seems like a huge amount to put out there for one more shot. With all the testing, surgeries, IUIs and IVF we put in a total over $40k and we really could use that in savings, in our house, etc. The way I looked at it is if it worked then it was worth every penny and if it didn't work it was still worth it because I knew I did EVERYTHING possible. Not to say this is the way you should or do feel but if it is I just wanted you to know it's not selfish or bad to keep pursueing your desires. <br /><br />More {{{HUGS}}}someday-soonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347835900888933013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532456271171506906.post-59405275067961936612011-02-15T16:56:34.219-05:002011-02-15T16:56:34.219-05:00That just completely sucks. It just infuriates me ...That just completely sucks. It just infuriates me that he would be so encouraging while not letting you do the shared risk program...I mean, does he think you have a good chance of success or not??? <br /><br />I'm so sorry that you have to figure all this out. It does seem like a lot to think about, but I wish you the absolute best as you try to figure out what's right for you! You'll come to the right conclusion, whatever it is.EChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08260308453829255236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532456271171506906.post-61118811028463861482011-02-15T16:37:57.846-05:002011-02-15T16:37:57.846-05:00(HUGGGGGGGG)
the university where my RE is doesn&...(HUGGGGGGGG)<br /><br />the university where my RE is doesn't have a shared risk program, and when i asked him about it last year, he said that their ethics committee wasn't convinced it was totally, well, ethical. the people who need the three tries/money back, etc. are not accepted because they're too "risky", and the people who have a high liklihood of having success on the first shot are accepted, only to pay at least twice what they would have for a single cycle (if their first cycle is successful). <br /><br />the other RE in town does have a shared risk program, and we were thinking of looking into it next year, but i doubt i would have been accepted either.<br /><br />i will be praying for you both as you decide what steps to take to expand your family (HUG)Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08034231451458994325noreply@blogger.com